I’ve had a really bad day.
It was one of those days that was so frustrating, that I don’t even want to talk about it and hear myself whine any more. Don’t get me wrong, nobody died or got fired or kicked me in the kneecaps… it was just an annoying day where politics interfered with getting real work done, and the lunacy of it all just tipped over my sane, pragmatic, roll with the punches sort of equilibrium.
There were some really bright spots that kept me from going postal. I reached out to my old hood (via IM – this is the new millennium of course!), and without asking (too hard) for it, got some dearly needed affirmations throughout the day, right at the right time. Shel booked me for lunch tomorrow, asking for my ear and advice. Benji praised my leadership, and said he’d been spoiled working together. Shane told me I’m a force of nature. Lori promised an invite for me and my dearest one to enjoy her husband’s WORLD FAMOUS (no kidding!) rib sauce. Cass thanked me for giving her kitty affection while her family’s away. Joyce offered to collaborate on my big new project. Melissaism listened to me whine and commiserated with my challenges, while giving me the old rock star atta-girl! (OK, this one was prompted!) Marlin dropped me a line complimenting my writing. Lastly, my boss suggested that the two of us over a beer could have come up with better recommendations than the hot-shot boutique we paid a gazillion dollars to, which is currently the bane of my existence … *sigh* Gosh, I needed that … All better now!!
I appreciate SO MUCH all of the little things people in my life say and do for me. For the most part, few of them knew I was having a rough day, but their words and actions really brightened up an otherwise yucky day. Thank you thank you thank you!!! It prompted me to drop a few thank you’s of my own, starting with my former boss, who has influenced me and my success tremendously. His team is blessed to have him.
Action Challenge: Take the time RIGHT NOW to let someone in your life know how much they mean to you, or how special they are, for whatever reason. There’s no time like the present, and who knows – it may be just what they need to hear at this very moment. A little love goes a long way.
Cheers and all my best to you!
~Brooxi
"Few things in the world are more powerful than a positive push - a smile. A word of optimism and hope, a 'you can do it!' when things are tough."
- Richard De Vos
© Stephanie Brooks 2008
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